Episode 12 of The Cost of Love is an empowering, affirming, and laugh-out-loud conversation with performer, facilitator, and activist Evie Fehilly.
Haley and Evie dive into the world of adult sex education—the kind we should have received growing up. They talk about pleasure, consent, queer identity, body literacy, and the often-unacknowledged emotional costs of shame, silence, and erasure.
Evie shares their experience running sex-positive workshops that centre queer joy, mutual care, and curiosity, and reminds us that education isn’t just about information—it’s about freedom.
We loved producing this one. It’s vibrant, funny, and deeply real. The edit focused on balancing playful energy with emotional depth—letting Evie’s personality shine while holding space for reflection. Haley’s questions create a space where nothing feels off-limits, and everything is met with warmth and wit.
If you’ve ever felt like traditional sex ed didn’t speak to your body, identity, or desires—this episode is a breath of fresh air.
Listen now on Apple Podcasts.
